Saturday, August 25, 2012

That Feeling..

The question is "why do we feel even more hurt when someone ignores us as compared to when someone hates us?"

Do you ever feel it, too? Maybe it isn't a big problem for you but.....the big problem is when someone knows you well suddenly ignores you and talks to anyone around you without acknowledging you.


How do you feel if it happens to you? Absolutely it makes me really have mixed feeling because it always reminds me with the beautiful moments of the past, but now....aaaaaarght! So, I feel hurt, angry to myself and definitely down. But when someone ignores you, what happens is that you want her/him all the more. Weird? Ha! But that's the fact!


"Why is he/she ignoring me?"

Honestly, this question always stuck in my mind all day while someone ignoring me. I don't even know why but all I do is keep wondering "why is he/she ignoring me?". Being ignored lead me to ask myself, "what did I do wrong?". Because I am ignored that question just remains an unanswered source of pain. At least, when I don't get the answers to this I decided to accept the fact!

But there always the reason why someone has ignored you. The reason someone ignoring you might be that he/she is feeling ignored or maybe he/she is in some grave unexplainable situation. Also, ignoring is a silent way of telling "get away from me!". 





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